Today I was lucky enough to join my exhuberant
preschooler on a class trip to The Children’s Museum. We boarded the long coveted yellow school bus and buckled 14 little
people into their seats. (Yes, they have harness buckles for preschoolers, gone
are the days of bouncing around freely while the driver watches helpless in his overhead
mirror.)
We the parents and teachers settled in for a long ride of
singing, screaming, giggling, whining, crying, laughing, fussing, fighting, and
joking. One or two mini meltdowns later, curtailed by talented adults who know
just how to distract, engage, and divert a restrained 4-5 year old, we finally
arrived at the museum.
Here we joined with moms and dads and play-groups galore in
a rambunctious romp fest of infinite proportions. As the children climbed, and
ran, splashed, built, crashed, banged, and pretended their way through the
museum, I found myself inundated with the immense poignancy of people spilling
love all over these perfect, precious children.
I watched gratefully as daddy’s “gobbled” their chubby little toddler’s legs, and mommy’s caressed sweet little heads. I saw siblings and classmates looking out for one another. I saw children interacting with children they had never met before with a shared sense of purpose, to cultivate the most joy they possibly could from this experience. I saw parents and caregivers smiling at one another with compassion and understanding. An unspoken message seemed to be passing invisibly through the air from one to another, “We are loving, we are trying”. Perhaps the morning had been wrought with tantrums and yelling, or maybe the ride there had been a tear-filled nightmare… Maybe someone’s toddler had been teething the night before or a family member had been sick recently… Regardless of what baggage we all carried into that museum, what I saw was a beautiful display of pure grace.
I found myself moved to tears as I sat and appreciated, soaking
up every single second of the bliss that played out before me. I was so glad to
have been there, to have shared this day with a building full of joy seekers
and life livers. I was honored to be a mother, a woman, a human being, a part
of something so inexplicably awesome.